Do not tell me this a difficult problem. If it were not difficult it would not be a problem. Some people have greatness thrust upon them. Very few have excellence thrust upon them. Do what you can, with what you have, where you are. The grass is not, in fact, always greener on the other side of the fence.
No, not at all. Fences have nothing to do with it. The grass is greenest where it is watered. When crossing over fences, carry water with you and tend the grass wherever you may be. The man who is waiting for something to turn up might start on his shirt sleeves. Stop freewheeling, get into gear, and do something with your life. There are so many avenues to explore, so why not explore them? Never be afraid to step into the unknown, into the new. Do it fearlessly, always expecting the very best as you do so. To think is easy. To act is difficult. To act as one thinks is the most difficult of all.
Have no fear of perfection you will never reach it. Do not be afraid to take big steps. You cannot cross a chasm in two small jumps. If you have a lemon, make lemonade. When one door closes another opens. Expect that new door to reveal even greater wonders and glories and surprises. Feel yourself grow with every experience. And look for the reason for it I do not seek. I find.